Enough with the Toxic Positivity, Please

  • “At least you could get pregnant.”
  • “There will be another one.”
  • “Just keep trying. One of them will stick.”
  • “You can always adopt.”
  • “Maybe it’s for the best.”
  • “Everything happens for a reason.”
  • “Don’t worry, it’s so common!”
  • “At least it happened early.”
  • “It’ll happen when the time is right.”
  • “Everything will be OK.”
  • “You’ll come out of this stronger.”



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All the Love

All the Love

Supporting and empowering people through pregnancy loss. All the Love: Healing Your Heart and Finding Meaning After Pregnancy Loss (Turner Publishing, 2021).